Are you struggling to keep negative energy away from your home? Here’s how to create a positive atmosphere at home in ten easy ways.
After my mother passed away a year ago, I moved into my family home for six months.
The first month was brutal. I was overwhelmed with grief, and it didn’t help that my family home was dark, cluttered, and filled with negativity.
I knew my late mother wouldn’t want to see me (or any of my family members) in complete misery after her passing.
After all, we experienced many happy memories in our home. And, I knew she wouldn’t have wanted her death to overshadow these cherished moments.
So, I decided to create a positive atmosphere in my family home using these 10 easy ways.
It wasn’t easy and it took about five months before we finally felt more at peace with our new routine.
But, it was worth it. Not only did I honor my mother’s legacy by making our family home a happy place again, but I felt better at home.
Some people think traveling will bring them peace, but it is a temporary solution. Happiness starts at home, the place where you spend the most time in.
If you are going through a tough time at home, I urge you to follow these 10 simple steps to create a more positive atmosphere at home.
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How To Create A Positive Atmosphere At Home In 10 Easy Ways
1. Declutter, declutter, declutter
The first thing I did after my mom passed was to declutter the entire home.
Over the years, we’d accumulated so much stuff and it made the house so crowded. Plus, being around the physical clutter made me uneasy. I felt like I didn’t have room to clear my mind or breathe!
Decluttering may seem like an overwhelming task, but I have an easy tip that can help you to get started.
Start decluttering by getting rid of these 10 everyday items first! It’s a lot easier and faster to decide what needs to go and what needs to stay when you’re going through meaningless items.
Once you’re in the groove, you can consider moving on to these other decluttering projects:
Think you can do more? Try these too:
2. Get organizing
After I decluttered my family home, I started organizing.
My goal was to give everything in the house a home. The first step? Creating a system that works for my family.
First, I created storage systems that housed similar things together. For instance, I had an electronics drawer for chargers, batteries, and cables; a linen drawer for table linens and tea towels; a drawer just for CDs, and so on.
Frequently used items were kept in easy to reach places, whereas items used sparingly like our winter attire were kept in storage.
Most items were tucked away in drawers and cabinets to avoid visual clutter.
It didn’t take long for my family to adjust. Now, they know exactly where each item belongs without asking me. Plus, they know how to tidy up after themselves because everything is so systematic.
Being organized creates a positive atmosphere at home because our lives become easier.
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- How to organize your under kitchen sink storage like a pro
3. Create and stick to a cleaning schedule
My mom used to do all the cleaning at home; so my dad and brother were pretty clueless when it came to this.
I didn’t want them to feel frustrated from living in a dirty home, so I created a simple cleaning schedule for them. I had three different types of schedules: a weekly, monthly, and quarterly schedule.
A cleaning routine is so helpful because it prevents tasks from building up. People don’t realize that it’s easy to feel overwhelmed and agitated when their homes are not in order.
Therefore, creating and sticking to a cleaning schedule helps to promote a positive atmosphere at home.
4. Airing out the home regularly
Here’s something I know I don’t do enough – airing out the home regularly.
Getting fresh air in the home is super beneficial to our health. Fresh air can improve our blood pressure and heart rate, promote a stronger immune system, and encourage higher serotonin levels, which improve moods!
Besides that, drawing the blinds or curtains and opening the windows lets natural light in. This is another benefit because sunshine helps to boost our spirits!
It doesn’t matter which season you’re in – opening the windows and airing out the home regularly is ALWAYS a good idea.
5. Make your home smell great
Do you know what always puts me in a good mood? Smelling something good.
Ever notice how you immediately feel relaxed in a spa or a hotel? That’s because these establishments understand the power of scent.
Making your home smell good is an affordable and easy method to create a positive atmosphere at home.
A great scent is relaxing and welcoming, and these are traits you want in your home!
When I lived in my family home, I added air fresheners in all of our bathrooms and lit candles whenever we hung out together in the living room.
Trust me when I say I noticed a positive shift in our energies after!
Here’s how you can make your home smell like a spa too.
6. Rearrange the furniture
Another easy way to create a positive atmosphere at home is by rearranging the furniture in your home.
Look, I get it. My family home has had the same furniture since I was a teen. As beautiful as they look, there are times when I feel bored and uninspired being in the same space for years.
Instead of spending more money, try rearranging the furniture in your home instead. According to Apartment Therapy, rearranging furniture can spark creativity and help one to embrace change.
I felt this to my core when I reupholstered my favorite armchairs in the living room. Although they remained in the same spot, giving them a mini makeover was enough to brighten the room (and my mood!)
7. Display your favorite memories
Ever catch yourself smiling when you think of your favorite memories? Well, displaying your favorite memories at home is a no-brainer way to create a positive atmosphere at home.
Be it framed photos or travel souvenirs, displaying your favorite memories is a great way to put a smile on anyone’s face.
It’s nice to have a clean and neat house, but it’s these personal touches that truly make a house a home!
Although I consider my home to be on the minimalistic side, I still have framed photos of my family and friends because they remind me that I am loved!
8. Use kind words
Besides using home decor, using kind words in a home helps to foster a positive environment at home.
Words can have a huge impact on a person. A compliment can make someone happy, but negative words can have the opposite effect.
Think before you speak and whenever possible, choose kind words. Remember, material things are a bonus and it is far more important to have loving relationships within a home. This will help to create a permanent positive atmosphere at home!
9. Have fun at home!
For some people, a home is a place for rest and rejuvenation. For others, it is simply a roof above their heads at the end of a long workday.
But, home is also a place where you can have tons of fun! My husband and I love creating memories at home. We’ve hosted game nights, dinner parties, and sleepovers for our family and friends.
When it comes to having fun, size doesn’t matter. All you need is a clean space, great food, and amazing company!
10. Spend time with your loved ones
Home decor can only do so much. The best way to create a positive atmosphere at home is to spend quality time with your loved ones at home.
Whenever possible, my husband and I try to eat at least one meal together. We love dining together because it allows us to catch up on each other’s lives.
If you have children, dedicate some time every day to be with them. Have conversations with them and play with them.
Family time builds stronger relationships, which creates a happy and positive environment for everyone living at home.
Are you ready to create a positive atmosphere at home?
I hope these tips have helped you to create a positive atmosphere at home. Life is short; it’s never too late to make your home a happy place!